How to be Original & not Fake – Personality Development Video & Soft Skills Training

How to be Original & not Fake – Personality Development Video & Soft Skills Training

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Oh man, I’m tired of these same, old, copy
pasted jokes, isn’t there anything original left in this world? Haven’t you wondered lately,
today with this fast-paced changing world everyone is in a hurry to get somewhere and
if that means compromising on their originality, they actually end up doing that? Nobody wants
to make the effort to be original and be true to themselves anymore. Everyone just wants
to copy paste and be a copycat and be absolutely fake if it gets them somewhere. Well, that’s
why I thought, I should talk to you about this and today, we are gonna talk about how,
you can be original, retain your originality and not be fake and yet be successful. Well,
my name is Rima and I hope you guys are doing well.  A very warm welcome to this video
and before I start talking about how you can be original, I want you to subscribe to our
channel and of course, make sure that you press the bell icon for notifications so that
you do not miss out on any of my videos. Well, now that you have subscribed to our channel,
let’s get on with this. Let’s learn how you can be original and not be fake. So you know what I’ve discovered, I’ve discovered
that people who are truly original, truly true to themselves, they actually give a hard
time to the copycats because it’s very difficult to copy them. Coz when you are so exuberant
and so yourself, how can an average copycat, copy you, right? So there are certain cool
qualities that original people have and if you can develop these qualities, you are going
to be a hundred percent original. So let me tell you what the first quality is. Now original
people, people who are true to themselves actually value their word. Now, what does
that mean? It means that they walk the talk. If they say something, they mean it, they
execute it, they take action on it and they actually value whatever they are saying. So
they don’t just speak casually, they don’t just make empty promises, they don’t make
excuses if they can’t match up to what they’ve said. They actually take ownership, they take
responsibility and they are people who truly, truly embody the phrase, I walk the talk meaning,
what I say, I do. What I say, I mean. So basically, original people end up becoming very dependable,
very responsible and very trustworthy. Trust me, if you are someone who is fake and who
is just trying to impress the crowd around you, it’s kind of hard to match up to being
original, responsible and trustworthy, right? So from now onwards, if you wanna be that
original true person, all you need to do is watch your words. Say what you mean and do
what you say. Yes, we’re talking about how you can be a
hundred percent original and not be fake. We’re not learning about how not to come across
as fake. We’re going a little deeper and teaching you, how you can actually be true to yourself
and never be fake. You know what, one more thing, I’ve observed about people who are
truly original, they are in love with time. Now you’ll be thinking, what do you mean by
they’re in love with time? You think time gives us an option to fall in love with it.
We’re always racing against time, time is money. Well, all of these are old, boring,
stressful corporate clichés, time is money, yeah, maybe it is at times, but time, more
than anything else is your life and my life and everyone’s life. So if you’re in love
with time, do you waste things that you love? Do you undervalue things that you love? Do
you disrespect things that you love? I don’t think so. So yes people who are original,
they are love with the concept of time. So they use their time effectively. They respect
and value their own time, they respect and value the time of another person. They’re
never late, they are always punctual, they never waste their time, and they use it productively.
Now when I say productively, they are not always sitting in front of their laptop and
trying to work away things. They could also be indulging in some beautiful self-reflective
thoughts. They could also be using the time to spend it with their loved ones, travel,
read, explore, as such basically they value, respect and treasure time and make good use
of it. Because of which, they never inconvenience others, they never end up creating a ruckus
because of their own lax attitude towards time and because they are original, they go
one step further and just because others are being irresponsible with time, they don’t
copy that. They do their own thing and they make sure, they make good use of their time.
So be original and fall in love with time. You know another thing, I’ve noticed that
original people do, they actually have an opinion on everything. Now when I say, everything,
it could be something personal, it could be a social issue. It could be a current issue,
it could be something at work, they’re never without an opinion. Now, I know that people
who are fake, who like to blend into the crowd don’t try and put forward their opinion so
easily because they don’t want to stand out. They just want to be like everyone else but
originals, actually stand out. They develop an opinion on everything. You know what the
best part is; they don’t borrow this opinion from a TV show, from a book, from a newspaper
or a magazine. they actually develop this opinion through their own unique thoughts,
personality and life experiences and you know what, that trait it’s unbeatable because two
people can never have the same experience which means, if I’m an original person and
I have an original opinion which is coming from my life experience, no one else is gonna
be able to copy that thought process. So, then it makes me even more original than I
was before. So I’ll tell you this brilliant incident that happened at my workplace. We
have a co-worker who is, not so original and then we have a coworker who is very original.
So each time our boss actually suggested an effective solution to the problem we were
facing, Mr Not Original actually quoted out of a book or a famous author that he or she
had read. Now that seems very well- read and articulate but then Mr Original actually would
speak simple wisdom that he had learned on the job and actually get us forward. That’s
when I realized that yes, it’s all good to be well- read and articulate and full of quotes
from famous authors but if you have life experience that is unbeatable. Which is why, I’m telling
you one more time, make sure that you’re walking the original path and you’re not copying anyone
because truly you’re a treasure and the whole world is waiting to hear from you. So we all know what fear is, right? I’m sure
all of us feel some amount of fear when we do something new or take a risk or anything
like that. But you know what, originals do, they have a different full form for the word,
fear. Fear is F-e-a-r and originals believe that fear stands for false evidence appearing
real, that’s right. They never give fear any credit. They never listen to their fears;
they just press on, on their chosen path and walk that path. Like for example, I knew a
friend of mine, who was not happy with the policies her company had for certain employees
and mostly all her coworkers, they didn’t want to upset anybody. They just wanted to
blend into the crowd; they didn’t want to rock the boat so nobody would express their
fearless, original opinion. This lady who had an iron will actually took up the issue
and very fearlessly expressed her opinion in the most, polite and respectful fashion
and trust me, she actually was able to bring about a change. So we don’t always have to
blend in and agree and be nice. In life, I feel it’s not important always to just be
nice. It’s important to be correct, it’s important to be just and above all, it’s also important
to be respectful. And trust me; originals truly are fearless and full of self-respect.
They respect themselves, they respect the other person and which is why they’re able
to express their opinion fearlessly with respect and with empathy. So, well that’s a quality
that all of us should really struggle and strive to inculcate because that’s gonna take
us a long, long way ahead. Ever heard of the term, trailblazer? Well,
original people are exactly that. Do you know what a trailblazer actually means? It means
a person who is willing to open up a new trial or a new path and blaze his new trail where
there was none before. A truly original person who is willing to take unique risks and unique
actions to fulfil his or her dream at any cost. Now most people, they love into society’s
version and definition of success. They’re okay with the usual job and home and security
and stability. Now these are factors are very important in life but if you truly want to
become original and achieve something absolutely astonishing in your life, then you need to
work hard. Then you need to open up a path where there’s none. Like for example, imagine
there’s a young man who has very good education, okay and he has a wonderful stable job and
a home but suddenly he feels like he’s feeling really dissatisfied with this job and he wants
to pursue his dream of becoming an internationally renowned artist. Now, what is he going to
do? Is he going to buy into society’s version and definition of success and hold on to that
job and remain unhappy or does he have the courage and the originality to actually work
a way around into following his passion for art? Now, none of these choices is ever easy,
they’re never straight-forward, they don’t give you instant results, they don’t give
you overnight success. They take a lot of grit, a lot of determination. They make you
face a lot of storms, adversities, and difficulties but in the end, when your dream is fulfilled,
trust me it all pays off. So well that’s what original people are all about. They are trailblazers;
they blaze new trails, pace new paths and lead their own life to their very own unique,
personal, original victory. You know what’s the toughest part of becoming
and standing out as an original individual? You have to become an authentic high-value
original. What does that mean? Now being authentic means remaining and living true to yourself.
Being a high-value individual means somebody who follows a high-value system. Now, what
are the higher values in life? Well, they are definitely not laziness, telling lies,
being lax; these are not values that you want to follow. You want to have a value system
that’s based on empathy, mutual respect, understanding, hard work, determination, grit, originality,
honesty and I go on and on and on, but the important point is, you have to inculcate
and develop these values in your life in order to become truly original and successful. Now
all you need to do is a simple experiment, take a piece of a paper, take a pen and write
down what are the core life values that drive you. You may be surprised that you already
have some of these high-value qualities and you may be very, very surprised that you may
have some qualities that you might want to work on and change. So walk on this path,
there’s no shortcut to this and the road ahead is very long for all of us, me included. We
can always keep developing and keep growing but trust me, if you become an authentic high-value
individual, you will be called truly original and then success is truly yours. So there you go, we learned so many interesting
things about how to be original and successful and how not to be fake. So well, develop those
opinions, develop that high-value system, learn to become a trailblazer, so much of
inner work to do for you and for me. I truly hope that you’ve enjoyed today’s video and
if you have enjoyed this video, make sure you subscribe to our channel, Skillopedia,
the place to learn skills for the real world. Well, it’s time for me, Rima to sign out,
I’m gonna catch you with yet another fantastic video very, very soon, till then stay original.

70 thoughts on “How to be Original & not Fake – Personality Development Video & Soft Skills Training”

  1. Hi .. I'm Joyce…. The topic was really interesting and I think, I should really step back and think about applying tis in life… Thank u for posting dis video…

  2. Interesting topics. Everyone should work on these issues to make their personality better. Love ur efforts.👍

  3. I have realized that I was living a life of a Copycat… Now I really do wanna change… Thanks Mam… For this awesome lesson… I think I can improve a lot..

  4. Hey… Reema hi… Its alwys pleasure to have ur sessions. Ur voice and clarity of talking is just im in lv with… Thanq.

  5. i don't know your name but i want to appropriate your teaching style very comfortable and easy to student i an other thing to clear that my english is very poor but i am keen of english

  6. great, but would u please provide ur amazing videos with English subtitles to be on track with what we hear pleeeeeaaaaase!!!

  7. Developing opinion should be developed only by studying and researching a lot in that particular subject. Often time, it can take you down for making opinion. Therefore, think this concept completely and then conclude.

  8. Mam Plz do a video on how to deal with copycats.
    I am so tired now
    It is so irritating
    I always try to be different from others and a girl copies everything what i do
    everything means evvvvvvveeeeeerrrrryyyytttthhhiiiinnnnggg
    And thats y all the efforts what i do to be different from others go waste.
    At the end of the day she and i look same and people are not able to find it out that
    Who copies whom.
    I am so irritated.

  9. I kind of liked it, but one thing dat I felt was u were too swift while talking becoz of which I couldn't catch up most of the points I wanted to pen down. Thanks a lot n keep posting more videos.

  10. Skillopedia is the best place for learning real life skills . . . I am learning from skillopedia . . . I have noticed some positive and great change in myself. I am very thankful to skillopedia for their awesome work . . .

  11. If someone has a dream in life but due to certain health problems he/she is not able to manage time properly to work for it.. how can this be overcome ?

  12. Ur videos always bring a smile to my face wid so mch positivity …😊
    Really thanks a lot n keep on making such more awesome videos.. after watching ur videos regularly I'm also able to realize dt how much difference these small baby steps can bring to our lives so, we should always remain positive, be original n jst persevere 😊

  13. i have encountered many people who said that they'd like to hang out on this and that time, and then they didn't follow thru. and one time when i contacted them, they acted like they still want to hang out but then they stopped responding and never explained why, they acted like nothing happened…now i learned they were being fake
    i'm fine if people don't want to hang out with me, i just don't understand why do they make empty promises? i value honesty not fake courtesy

  14. Bla – bla , boring, some pictures might be added if you worked hard! Giving lecture or detail conservation or knowledge on a topic is Good, best but you need to improve your video

  15. Are you Orginal Mrs.
    ? Or just giving a lecture or knowledge on it???? If you are really original thn you will respond to my questions

  16. Too many adds popping up. It was difficult to keep track of whats been said once finish with ad. Pls find other way to earn. ads are definitely scrowing your valuable content.

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